This past week has been very strange in our village. Last Tuesday one of the elders past away at
her home from pneumonia. Tradition dictates that the body is to remain in the
home for three days while family and friends pass through to give their
respects. All after-school and community
activities are cancelled until after the funeral. Students come and go from school all week –
staying home to be respectful, but then coming back either from boredom or
driving the parents crazy, I imagine. I had to go out to the school’s play deck
several times to “shoo away” students who were not attending school because
they were related to the elder, but were disturbing classes by bouncing basketballs
and making noise.
Obviously, there are no funeral homes here. After three
days, the body is taken to the church to be placed in the casket. That is, if the casket has arrived. This week we had freezing rain and a low
cloud layer, so for several days there were no planes. So, poor Mrs. Carl’s body stayed in the home for
over five days waiting for the coffin to come.
Once the coffin/casket has arrived, they can begin digging the grave in
the hard frozen ground. They believe
that if they begin to dig the grave before everything is ready, others will
die.
Mrs. Carl was from two particularly large families – the Carls
and the Juliuses. Because she was
originally from Newtok, half the village of Newtok is here, having flown in the
day she passed away. The extra people
have really changed the “feel” here. It
just seems bustling and eerie at the same time.
Last night there was a big sing-along event at the community center next
door, so everyone was out way past curfew, and the streets sounded like a
freeway with four-wheelers buzzing everywhere.
Today, school was let out early so that everyone could
attend the funeral at 1:30. It was at
the Catholic Church, with a full mass and communion. Tonight there will be a large feast; then
again, in 40 days from her death, the family will host another feast. Our school secretary, Susie, told me this
morning that all the upcoming babies will be named after the woman that passed
away.
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Saint Peter the Fisherman Catholic Church |
Finally, every year on the anniversary of her death, the
family will hold a large feast in her memory.
Over time, people combine the feasts for several members of the family –
otherwise there would be a feast every week!!